Saturday, October 23, 2010

Which Side?

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves too often that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.

Francois de La Rochfaucauld
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There was a broadcaster I knew years ago. One day he came into my studio and saw me reading a book on psychology. He wanted to know if I was interested in psychology. I told him I was trying to get in touch with my sinister side, to understand it and come to terms with it.

Here was a man who had no background or experience in broadcasting, who gave a lot of wrong information about himself to get his job, who stole other people's ideas and passed them off as his own, who aired a program in which he claimed to have gone out and interviewed a lot of people which he hadn't done, who made fun of the professionals around him, who easily took credit for things he didn't do, who made mistakes in his work but never admitted them or tried to correct them, who attempted to exert power over people he had no right to, who lied and gave false information about other people, who eavesdropped on private conversations and spread rumors and who assumed control and exercised it over the whole station.

In my studio that day he said to me with an absolutely straight face "I have no sinister side" and walked out. I didn't say anything to him but inside I laughed. It seemed to me that he was a walking poster boy for the sinister a card carrying member of the club of the underhanded, conniving and devious.

The real problem was that he really believed it. "Sinister" to him meant left handed and his understanding stopped at that point. I wonder how long it will take him to wake up to himself. He has walked around with a self designed disguise for so long any awakening is liable to be a terrible shock and he may go looking for a book on psychology to help him figure it out.

It's a great danger to sanity and well being to parade in a guise that we believe because we've held it for so long. It's a certain obstacle for understanding ourselves. I'ts something to be avoided, or to be faced and dealt with.

I haven't seen the fellow for years. All I know is that he eventually lost that job, finessed his way into another job and lost that one also. He never fooled anyone but himself.

DB - The Vagabond
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Weekend Puzzle

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(Sit down to do this one.)
DB

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pacifica62 said...

Years ago it would have been much more difficult to check someone's credentials so they could get away with things if only for a short time. These days with all the technology we have to check out information a person would not be able to embellish the old curriulum vitae, but they do, or at least they try. I suppose some people become who they pretend to be, at least in their mind. We just have to be careful to expose these people for who they really are so that people do not get used or harmed in any way. They really do not fool anyone but themself.

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Bucko (a.k.a., Ken) said...

It is hard to understand how some people can look themselves in the mirror and not understand that they are not who they portend to be. Self delusion is a learned skill, and it has no social redemption.